1) FANTASYFLING FEATURES [Back To Top]Q: I found some great fantasies on this site. Can I save them so that I can find them again quickly?Yes. When you login to the site you will notice the ‘Fantasies’ link under the ‘My Favorite Links’ box in the lower left corner. As you read someone’s fantasy you can click the ‘Add to Favorites’ button to save it to this box so that you can quickly retrieve and view that fantasy, and you can contact that person a lot easier than just searching for them on the site. Until you begin adding your favorite fantasies to this box it will display a random selection of fantasies from the site. Once you start adding fantasies the titles you have selected will show up in the box.
Q: What’s the “Most Popular Fantasies”?The Most Popular Fantasies are the ones that have been viewed the most. Fantasy Fling counts the number of times a fantasy has been viewed and displays the titles of the three most popular fantasies in the ‘Most Popular Fantasies’ box.
Q: How do I contact someone I’m interested in?Members can connect with other Members who share their fantasies. You
can contact someone you are interested in by sending an email to their Fantasy
Fling username. You must have ‘Member’ status in order to do this.
‘Guest’ status allows you to receive messages so you can see who is interested
in contacting you. However as a Guest you cannot initiate email messages
or respond to emails. So upgrade to Member status NOW and get unlimited
email capability.
If you are a Member you can email anyone that you are interested in.
You should first log into the site. Find the Members you want to contact
either by doing a search, by clicking your ‘Friends online’ link or by clicking
the ‘Email Messages’ link. If you are viewing someone’s fantasy you can
click the ‘Send Message’ button to contact them. You can also compose an
email or reply to an email in order to contact someone. If that person is
also a ‘Member’ they have the ability to respond to your email message. If
they have ‘Guest’ status only you can give them a ‘Gift’ of temporary Member
status so that they can communicate with you. We don`t allow you to send
email that includes URLs and email addresses.
Q: What’s the “Confessions” option and how do I use it?Confessions is a unique feature that you can only find at FantasyFling. Sometimes fantasies become reality and this is a place where our Members share their stories. Have you ever indulged in a fantasy and you were just dying to tell someone? Tell it at FantasyFling and get some reaction from other people. Find out what they think. Who knows, maybe they lived the same fantasy and you can compare notes. Have some fun with Confessions.
Sign up as a ‘Member’ NOW to post your confessions and read full details on others.
Q: What’s the “Fantasy Forum” and how do I use it?The Forum is one of FantasyFling’s features that sets us apart from other sites. It’s where the community action takes place. As a Member you can browse through the forum topics and click the ones you are interested in to view discussions by our Members and post your own comments. The Fantasy Forums are very popular with our Members and you will see that some fantasy categories get a lot of postings.
Q: What’s the “Friends on Line” list and how do I set one up?As a Member of FantasyFling you can view Members’ profiles (which includes their fantasies) and add them to your ‘friends list’. Each time you add someone to your friends list FantasyFling keeps track of their username for you. When you sign in you are taken to the Members Home page where we tell you how many of your friends are online. You can click the ‘Friends Online’ number to see who they are.
Q: What is my “average member rating” and what is it based on?When Members and Guests find your fantasies they are able to rate them according to how interesting, intriguing, hot or fascinating they find them. The rating system is 1 through 5, with 5 being the highest rating. Every time someone rates your fantasy we tabulate the rating numbers you receive. When you sign in you are taken to the Members Home page where we show you your average rating. This will let you know how much attention your fantasies are getting, and will also lead to more people contacting you. FantasyFling also holds contests from time to time and sometimes winning is related to the rating you have.
Q: What types of fantasies will I find on this site?Fantasies range from nice romantic interludes to the heights of eroticism, and everything in between. Fantasy categories include -
- Threesomes / Multiple partners
- Getting it on in Public Places
- Voyeurism / Watching
- S&M
- With a Stranger
- Swingers
- Lesbians
- Gay Men
- Surrender of Control
- Interracial Fantasies
- Dirty Talk
- First Time Ever…
- I like to Dress Up
- Adult Toys
- Favorite places
- Romantic Interludes
- So Hot I Can`t Name It!
Each category has sub categories that further describe what it`s about. Here are some examples of sub-categories.
`Getting it on in Public Places` category will have fantasies that fit these sub-categories -
- Mile High Club (airplanes)
- Movie theatre
- Sex on the Beach
- Elevator
- Parked Car
- Pool / Hot Tub
- Dark Corner of a bar
- Camping / Hiking
- Office conference room
- Other `Special Places`
`With a Stranger` category will have fantasies that fit these sub-categories -
- Prostitute / stripper / porn star
- At a convention
- A patient / a client / an adult student
- Celebrity
- In Uniform (cop, nurse, fire fighter, teacher…)
- Seducing the maid / gardener/ chauffeur / bell boy
`Interracial Fantasies` category will have fantasies that fit these sub-categories -
- White Men with Women of Color
- White Women with Men of Color
- Men of Color with White Women
- Women of Color with White Men
Join NOW and see all the types of fantasies that people are describing on our site. You will not believe what people are fantasizing about!
Q: This is a great site for getting new fantasy ideas. How do I find them?If you are looking for fantasy ideas, things to try at home, ways to spice up
your love life, interesting topics to discuss with your friends you have come to
the right place. FantasyFling’s users are very creative and you will find
lots of ideas here. The best way to start is via the “Quick Search” which
allows you to search by fantasy category, e.g. “Getting it on in Public”, and
search deeper by specifying the subcategory. e.g. Movie Theatre, Dark Corner of
a Bar, Elevator, a Park. You can also specify keywords, and you can narrow
your search by gender, location, sexual orientation and age range.
The search results will show you a picture (if one exists) of the person who
posted the fantasy, the fantasy title and the first 100 words. If you are
a Member you can then read their entire fantasy.
There is also an Advanced Search capability that you can access by clicking
the ‘Search’ tab on the top menu bar. Advanced Search lets you specify
additional search parameters such as hobbies, marital status, religion,
ethnicity, their sexual interests (i.e. what they are into such as oral sex),
and even indicate whether you want to see results for Members only or both
Members AND Guests.
Remember that Guests can receive emails but they cannot initiate or respond
to emails. This is a privilege reserved for Members. Members can
send a temporary gift of ‘1-hr free Member status’ to anyone. So if you
are a Member and you find someone you want to contact and they are not a Member,
send them a gift so that they can experience the great features that Members
have access to.
Q: Can people comment on my fantasies? (responses)Yes, and this is one of the really intriguing features of FantasyFling. As you read someone’s fantasy you can click the ‘Respond to Fantasy’ button and this takes you to our Forums area where a thread has been started for the fantasy and you can see the responses or postings from other people who also reads it and had something to say. Sometimes our Members even add their own twists to the fantasies. This feature is only available to Members. When you sign in as a Member you are taken to the Members Home page where we show you how many ‘responses to your fantasies’ you have. This will let you know how much attention your fantasies are getting, and will also lead to more people contacting you. Click the link and it will let you view those responses.
Q: What’s the “Most Popular Forums”?The Most Popular Forums are the ones that have received the most postings. Fantasy Fling displays the titles of the three most popular Forums in the ‘Most Popular Forums’ box.
Join NOW and check out these popular forums. You won’t want to miss the steamy exchanges.
Q: What’s the “Top Posters”?The Top Posters are our Members who have the most postings in our forums. Fantasy Fling displays the titles of the three Top Posters to our Forums in the ‘Top Posters’ box.
2) GENERAL QUESTIONS [Back To Top]Q: What is the difference between ‘Basic’ and ‘Premier’ membership levels?No doubt, Premier Membership has its privileges. And at FantasyFling, so does
being a Basic Member. Basic Members share as much as they want for FREE...it’s
when it comes to the “fling” where being a Premier Member is the only way to go.
As a Basic Member you can post your FREE profile including your fantasies and a
photo. You can also search our fantasy database to find intriguing people. You
can view their profile, get a glimpse into part of their fantasies and view one
of their photos. You can also receive email from other Basic Members and Premier
Members.
At FantasyFling Premier Members share it All. You can view peoples’ entire
fantasies and their sexy profiles, share your fantasies with thousands of
fantasy seekers. Check out thousands of amazing fantasies. You might even get
some ideas to try at home. Browse our steamy forums, read and post confessions,
communicate with other Members, respond to people’s fantasies and add your own
twist, do advanced searches, send and receive unlimited email.
Join NOW! Premier Members can connect with other Premier
Members and Basic Members who share their fantasies. Premier Members can also
‘Give a Gift’ of temporary Premier Member status to your friends or to a Basic
Member that you want to interact with.
Q: I feel my fantasy may be a bit too graphic; will you be able to post it?FantasyFling gives you an opportunity to express your deepest desires. The fantasies can be as provocative as you want them to be, as long as they do not include any references to children or animals. Fantasies and photos that include children or animals are STRICTLY PROHIBITED. FantasyFling delivers a service for adults. Any profile that contains depictions, whether visual or in text, of images or references to children or animals will be removed from the site immediately. Please observe and adhere to this rule. We are obligated by law to report any such depictions to the authorities. All Members and Guests who create profiles on FantasyFling.com agree to the site’s ‘Terms of Use’, including the following language “you agree not to post, disseminate or transmit material that, to a reasonable person, is abusive, obscene, pornography involving children and/or bestiality, defamatory, harassing, grossly offensive, threatening or malicious; post, disseminate or transmit images of children; read our
terms of use for more information.
Q: Are there any types of fantasies prohibited on this site?Fantasies and photos that include children or animals are STRICTLY PROHIBITED. FantasyFling delivers a service for adults. Any profile that contains depictions, whether visual or in text, of images or references to children or animals will be removed from the site immediately. Please observe and adhere to this rule. We are obligated by law to report any such depictions to the authorities. All Members and Guests who create profiles on FantasyFling.com have agreed to the site’s ‘Terms of Use’, including the following language “you agree not to post, disseminate or transmit material that, to a reasonable person, is abusive, obscene, pornography involving children and/or bestiality, defamatory, harassing, grossly offensive, threatening or malicious; post, disseminate or transmit images of children; read our
terms of use for more information.
Q: What is the FantasyFling.com?FantasyFling.com offers the unique service that lets you share and explore your fantasies, and even take them to unimaginable levels by sharing with others who are like-minded.
This is the ONLY site where you can find people to connect with based on what they`re fantasizing about, not just on their looks or their hobbies. Whatever your fantasy, find the people who want to share it with you at FantasyFling.com.
At FantasyFling you can be as anonymous as you want to. Don`t keep those deep fantasies to yourself anymore. Join our community. It`s a private, non-threatening way to fantasize with others without risk of ridicule or exposure. It`s for you if you want to -
- Share your deepest fantasies with others who may have the same fantasies, or may enjoy sharing new ones with you.
- Be intrigued and aroused by other peoples fantasies, and connect with them if you choose to.
- Get some great ideas to try at home. Wait till you find out what our Members and Guests are fantasizing about!
- Find a playmate, a `phone mate` or a `life mate`. Let your fantasies lead you. JOIN FantasyFling NOW!
The types of fantasies that our Users engage in are endless, however we have placed them in categories to make it easy for you to find what you`re looking for. Fantasy categories include -
- Threesomes / Multiple partners
- Getting it on in Public Places
- Voyeurism / Watching
- S&M
- With a Stranger
- Swingers
- Lesbians
- Gay Men
- Surrender of Control
- Interracial Fantasies
- Dirty Talk
- First Time Ever…
- I like to Dress Up
- Adult Toys
- Favorite places
- Romantic Interludes
- So Hot I Can`t Name It!
Q: What suggestions should I keep in mind to be safe online?Remember that this is FantasyFling. You can have as many ‘flings’ as you want via the site. Online connections can be fun and you should exercise the same cautions you would in any setting where you are interacting with people that you don’t know. Click here to read about ‘Being Safe Online’. Most tips are just common sense. Some of the important ones are to protect your anonymity, do not put contact information in your profile, on the forum, or in your email communications. If you decide to meet, remember that this is a fantasy connection site. You are sharing fantasies with other people in an anonymous way and this is what most people like about our service. However, if you choose to explore your fantasies further by physically connecting with people make sure you practice the same caution you would when meeting any stranger. Do not meet at your home, meet in a safe public place and make sure you’re not feeling pressured.
Q: What is a Username? How is it used?A Username is the name you create for yourself. It is unique to you and is used instead of your real name, allowing you to remain anonymous on FantasyFling.com.
Q: How do I submit a suggestion or comment to FantasyFling.com?We’ve received lots of comments from our users and we welcome your input. It helps us to continuously deliver a great service. We welcome your input. You can submit your suggestions by clicking the “Contact Us” tab, and typing your message in the ‘Comments’ area.
Q: What do I do after I sign up?When you sign up you will receive your username and password via email.
The email will also include a link to take you directly to the section of
FantasyFling where you will create your profile. This is an important step
so make sure you select all the items that describe you and your
fantasies. Tell us about your gender, location, sexual interests, hobbies,
marital status, etc. Then describe your fantasies. You will select
the category (or categories) that fall into and give them a scintillating
title. This will make it easier for others to find you as people tend to
search by the categories they are interested in. Then give us the
details! Who, what, when, where, how, how many, how long. Go for
it! Fantasies can range from beautiful, romantic interludes to very
erotic. We even have a category called ‘So Hot I Can’t Name It!’
You may add up to 3 pictures. Once you`ve completed your profile, start
by trying out the search options. Check out our Users’ fantasies and exciting
profiles. If you signed up as a Member and you find someone you like you
can send them an email message. If you signed up as a Guest and you want to
initiate contact, upgrade to ‘Member` status and go for it. Guests can
receive emails but they cannot initiate or respond. This is a privilege
reserved for Members. Don’t forget that Members can send a temporary gift
of ‘1-hr free Member status’ to anyone. So if you are a Member and you
find that someone you want to contact and they are not a Member, send them a
gift so that they can experience the great features that Members have access
to.
Q: Why do I need a profile if I’m just searching through fantasies?FantasyFling caters to a community of like-minded people who want to share fantasies. You must complete a profile so that other Members and Guests can find you. The most important part of the profile is your fantasy (or fantasies, you can create as many as you want). You can submit your fantasies as you are signing up, or you can do it later. Also remember that your profile will be anonymous as you will be known on the site by your username.
3) YOUR FANTASY PROFILE [Back To Top]Q: How long does it take before my profile is posted?Once you`ve signed up, you`ll be sent a confirmation email which includes your username, password and a clickable link to login to the site. The first time you login FantasyFling takes you through the profile creation process so that you can describe yourself, your desires and most importantly your fantasies. You can even post your photos. Your profile will be available immediately even if you have not filled out the fantasy section or posted a photo. If you elect not to submit your fantasies and photos right away you can always return and update these sections of your profile. Remember, your fantasies and photos are the best way for people to find you so don’t forget this important step. Your profile will also go into our review queue to ensure your profile information is compliant.
Once you have saved your fantasies and or photos to your profile they will be available immediately. However, they will go into our review queue and we will review it to ensure it is in compliance with our
Terms of Use and the information or photos you have submitted are acceptable. This could take 24-48 hours. If approved they will stay posted on the site. If your fantasies or photos are rejected, you will be notified via the email address you provided. DO NOT INCLUDE DESCRIPTIONS OR PHOTOS OF CHILDREN AND ANIMALS IN YOUR PROFILE. Also remember that FantasyFling does not allow you to post your email address or website address to your profile.
Q: What kind of photos can I upload to my profile? Any restrictions on what is considered appropriate?At FantasyFling people will seek to connect with you based primarily on the information in your fantasy and perhaps your photos (if you choose to include photos). The photos you submit to your profile will be considered inappropriate and will not be posted if they include pictures of children or animals, animated gifs, or pictures depicting illegal acts. You can review our Terms of Use to get full and complete information on acceptable images that can be used in your photos. Note that we state in our
Terms of Use that FantasyFling will report anyone who posts pictures depicting child pornography or nude pictures of minors to the appropriate authorities.
Q: Are profiles censored? What’s the limit of what I can put in my profile?Profiles are not censored before they are posted to the site, when they are created the first time or even after you have made changes or updates. However, your profile does go into a review queue and will be reviewed for compliance. If a profile contains any hotlinks to another site, any email addresses, references to or photos of children and animals it will be considered non-compliant. Furthermore, we don`t allow racist or graphic content, child pornography, or bestiality. If your profile is deemed to be in violation of our
Terms of Use it will be immediately removed from the site. If anything inappropriate is found in your profile it will be removed from the site and you will be notified immediately of this action via email. As this is a violation of our Terms of Use, repeat offences may result in the termination of your account without warning or refunds.
Q: How do I become a member or make other changes to my account status?You can enjoy the wonderful privileges of full membership by updating your status setting once you`ve logged into the site. Click here to
SIGN UP NOW! You can also change other status settings such as your subscription period (1 month, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year), your payment method and credit card information. In the “Edit my Info” section near the top of the page click the "My Status" button to change any of these account status settings.
Q: How do I change my fantasies or photos?You can update your profile, including your fantasies and photos, once you`ve
logged into the site. In the “Edit my Info” section near the top of the
page click the "My Fantasies" button to add, change or delete your
fantasies. You can change the fantasy category and sub-category, title and
any of the fantasy details. You can even delete fantasies and add more
fantasies.
Click the “My Photos” button to add, change or delete your photos. The
instructions on the Photos page will tell you how to upload or delete
photos. If you are a Guest you can post 1 photo to your profile.
Members can post up to 3 photos.
Once you have completed your changes, additions or deletions click the
‘Continue’ button to save your changes. Give our Customer Care team time to
review it (within 48 hours), and you’re good to go.
Q: Are there any tips on creating my fantasies?Your fantasies are the heart of your profile. They are the reason people seek to make contact with you when they find you on the site. Scintillating and erotic are always good but remember that FantasyFling is about fantasies and many of our users are romance seekers. Your fantasy does not have to be ‘wild and crazy’ to attract attention. Romantic fantasies are also a big draw. And keep in mind that FantasyFling offers 17 categories and a lot of subcategories that your fantasy could fit. Your fantasy is what it is. You don’t have to make up a story just to get noticed. Your only job is to tell us your fantasies and those who share them or like them will find you. Remember, no references to children or animals should be included in your fantasies.
Another tip is to create a catchy or interesting title for your fantasy. When people search for fantasies on the site, the title of your fantasy is listed next to your name. Titles that give a hint to what the fantasy is about will intrigue people and catch their attention. Fantasy titles like "Hi!" do not catch people`s attention.
4) COMMUNICATING WITH MEMBERS [Back To Top]Q: How do I search for fantasies?FantasyFling gives you a ‘Quick Search’ option which is available from most
pages on the site. Select the Fantasy category from the ‘Fantasy Search’
list, the sub-category from the ‘What You Really Want List’ or enter keywords to
search for. You can focus your search further by specifying an age range,
gender and sexual preference. Then click the ‘Search’ button to get a list
of people who fit the criteria you specified.
FantasyFling also has an ‘Expanded Search’ capability that allows you to
specify many more characteristics and search options to find the people whose
fantasies intrigue you. The expanded search options include sexual
interests, hobbies, gender, ethnicity, username, their user status (i.e. Member
vs. Guest) and many more options. Just click the ‘SEARCH’ button in the
navigation bar at the top of the page to access the expanded search options.
Keyword search is available as part of Quick Search and also in Expanded
Search. Find people with fantasies and interests similar to yours by
entering keywords. The site will find people who used those words in their
fantasy titles, fantasy descriptions, or in the ‘About me’ box when they set up
their profiles.
Our ‘Search Results’ will show you a photo (if they have one in their
profile), their username, the fantasy title and the first 3 lines of their
fantasy that matches your search criteria. We also show you the categories
and sub-categories of the other fantasies in their profile, let you know if they
are currently online and the last time they visited. Guests will see the
first 100 characters of the fantasy. Upgrade NOW to Member status.
As a Member you can click through to see the entire fantasy or fantasies and
read all the juicy details.
Q: How do I block people from contacting me?As a ‘Member’ you can block messages from specific people who have sent
messages to your Inbox. Once you login and click the ‘Email Messages’ link
you will see messages from all the people who are attempting to communicate with you. Once you open a message you can click the ‘Block’ button to prevent
that user from sending you messages in the future.
Note that Guests are not able to block messages.
Sign up NOW to Member status and enjoy the full email
capabilities.
Q: Is my contact information anonymous?Yes, FantasyFling protects your privacy and anonymity through the use of
usernames as the method for identifying and communicating among users on the
site. None of the site’s Guests, Members or Visitors will have access to
your personal contact information. They will identify you and communicate
with you via your Username. All personal contact information that you
submit to FantasyFling (e.g. your name, your email address, your physical
address) is kept in a confidential database by us and is used only by authorized
members of our company to contact you as necessary.
Q: How do I get email from other Members and Guests?Once you login the ‘Email Messages’ link will indicate the number of new
messages you have. You can click this link to access your email Inbox and
view new emails as well as old emails that have not been deleted. Your
Inbox will show the picture, username, email subject and date sent for each
message you receive. As a ‘Member’ you can reply to messages, block
messages from specific people and send new messages from your Inbox. Don’t
forget that Members can send a temporary gift of ‘1-hr free Member status’ to
anyone. So if you are a Member and you find that someone you want to
contact and they are not a Member, send them a gift so that they can experience
the great features that Members have access to.
Note that Guests can read their messages but they are not able to reply to
messages, block senders, or send new messages. If you are guest you`ll
need to
sign up as a member status and enjoy
the full email capabilities that will let you correspond with the exciting
people you find on our site. Start sharing fantasies now.
Q: How do I connect with the ‘flingers’ whose fantasies intrigue me?Members can connect with other Members who share their fantasies. You
can contact someone you are interested in by sending an email to their Fantasy
Fling username. You must have ‘Member’ status in order to do this.
‘Guest’ status allows you to receive messages so you can see who is interested
in contacting you. However as a Guest you cannot initiate email messages
or respond to emails. So upgrade to Member status NOW and get unlimited
email capability.
If you are a Member you can email anyone that you are interested in.
You should first log into the site. Find the people you want to contact by
searching for the fantasies you are interested in. We have 17 categories
to choose from, each with it’s own sub-category if you want to narrow the
search. If you are viewing someone’s fantasy you can click the ‘Send
Message’ button to contact them. If that person is also a ‘Member’ they
have the ability to respond to your email message. If they have ‘Guest’
status only you can give them a ‘Gift’ of temporary Member status so that they
can communicate with you. We don`t allow you to send email that includes
URLs and email addresses.
5) USERNAME / PASSWORD / EMAIL ADDRESS [Back To Top]Q: How do I change my password or username?You will not be able to change your username once it is established. However, you can change your password once you`ve logged onto the site. In the “Edit my Info” section near the top of the page click the "My Profile" button. Enter your old password, your new password, and re-type your new password. Then scroll to the bottom of the page and click the ‘Continue’ button to save your changes.
Q: How do I change my email address?You can change your email address once you`ve logged onto the site. In the “Edit my Info” section near the top of the page click the "My Profile" button. Enter your new email address then scroll to the bottom of the page and click the ‘Continue’ button.
Q: What should I do if I forgot my password or username?If you forgot your username or password click the ‘Forgot Password’ link from the main page to be taken to the ‘Request Username and Password’ page. You can put in your email address that you used to sign up and we will send your username and password to that email address. If you don`t remember either your username, password, OR the email address you used to sign up, please click the link on the bottom of the page to contact our customer service department. Tell them as much info as you can remember and we`ll try and help you find your account info.